A TOXIC POISON IN LIFE[RESENTMENT]

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Never for once have I see myself as a relationship expert in life,cause I strongly believe that all what happens in life needs a process to actually come to it end ,but I felt this vibes in me this morning and I was very much conerrn that pushing this to the community won't be a bad idea.

To me it's not a factor that affect partners alone as some people might want to say or not the introvert or extrovert part of life as some might also want to claim too,but a hurtful habit that can stop peoples progress and hinder them from having a flow and free intimacy with people cause of the level of understanding or what they tend to see as been patience. what are mine talking about,it is all about the word RESENTMENT

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Some individual seems to have a different view to it by calling it the ac of making peace,but to me it goes beyond that I see it

bitter indignation at having been treated unfairly

Resentment is a very dangerous toxic poison that kills relationship and intimacy with people when it is not release,we all need to find a way to let thing's that matters or things that makes us feel bad out when we are unfairly treated

To me it is very wrong to say it is a way of making peace especially when will feel hurt or get angry as good as keeping quiet in terms of anger might sound,but coming out to speak is another thing that is vital and making our feeling known too in time like that is very vital.

I strongly believe that it is not a crime to know how to manage pepe or things around us,but it becomes a bad thing to keep things to hurt us to to ourselves, cause they might lead us to commiting offence that are deadly later in life if care is not taking.

we should learn to speak out,no one dies when they express their feelings


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Resentment, what a word!, This word is the cause of downfall of many relationships today. No matter the kind of love that exists, as long as resentment enters,things start to change.

Resentment could come any one, could be your most precious loved one, your friends, and even people that don't even know you.

we all need to find a way to let thing's that matters or things that makes us feel bad out when we are unfairly treated

Exactly, if you feel somehow towards someone, it's better to come out to say it instead of keeping it to yourself, it gives peace of mind.

I really like the fact that you brought this up. Nice write up

Thank you for sharing.


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The ending message is extremely important. It is very important to let those things out before it magnifies and affects other areas of our lives including other people.

One of the key challenges which people can experience could be finding a reliable person to share that with or overall making peace with the resentment they are experiencing.

Yeahh, that's very true.


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Thank for the post cause I use to go through this resentment issue while people around you just want you to voice out and talk, make your self expressed, they really want to know what you are going through in thoughts and it's really good, I believe connecting with people is the best gift in life apart from living of course but to need each other we need to talk to each other.


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Never for once have I see myself as a relationship expert in life,cause I strongly believe that all what happens in life needs a process to actually come to it end

Infact no human being in a relationship is expect and we like and appreciate hearing from you in pushing the community forward.


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Human feelings, isn't it? I've had resentment for some people and I believe I've caused that feeling for some people too. We made mistakes, but the question is to know how important it is to maintain such an act. There comes a time when it becomes unbearable, unfeasible to remain bitter in the face of a past that has already passed. Everything passes, for some it unfortunately takes longer.


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Nice write up mate, as you know this is the kind of situation or feeling in life that one can not avoid no matter how hard we try because we all pass a stage where we are loved and also love in return but the way at which we reciprocate this action of the heart is what matters.

Resentment is a very dangerous toxic poison that kills relationship and intimacy with people when it is not release,we all need to find a way to let thing's that matters or things that makes us feel bad out when we are unfairly treated

You are totally right about that and I strongly believe that this act should be well handle and in such a way if we do not take proper action the relationship tend to be shattered.

As we all know, the present shouldn't be judged with the past, anger of betrayal or displeasure shouldn't be held for long and passed to others... It should be known that the good ones are out there and we should try and give happiness and friendship a chance..


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